Just like to say that the whole essence of your approach is amazing.  It fills a void for people like myself who do not wish to "use" women, but rather share a positive experience.  I am married with two gorgeous kids and I have no desire to cheat, but I recognise a void which I understand my wife cannot always have the energy to fill after taking care of kids all day.

“You are such a truly inspiring woman! You bring with you the most amazing sense of compassion and healing for people, even against some harsh society misconceptions regarding your work. This isn’t work for you, this is healing, and more importantly - family preservation.

You have a fantastic ability to let people into your space, so that they feel cared for and nurtured. I am proud to know you!" 

As a man, I feel that it is no problem for me to make a clear distinction between sex, love and intimacy.  I often am so attracted to other women that it drives me nearly insane.  I really feel like it is biological to some extent - it is me through and through.